Self-help programs

What do you do when you feel totally discouraged? You keep going! I’m feeling this way now because I put all my hopes in going to the Matrixx event. Yesterday though, I spoke to Arash and he suggested that I attend the next one in January. I guess that’s fine because I still get to go in a few months – granted that I do come up with the money this time! But still, I just feel sad and disappointed because of all the efforts I put in trying to go this year. Of all the self-help programs that I’ve come across, this one seems the most promising.

It’s kind of paradoxical too that they would encourage me to postpone my dream – while the core of their program suggests that you just go for it – NOW! I guess it’s just all up to me to jump on a plane and fly to Toronto to see what happens! Maybe the person sitting next to me on the plane will offer me the money! Or maybe the participants, when they hear my story, will decide to sponsor me! What’s holding me back though is my questioning about the reasons why I didn’t put more efforts into the realization of my dream. Because, let’s face it, there is a lot more that I could have done! Like going door-to-door to collect money, cold calling potential clients to earn a commission, asking my friends to lend me money, and so many more options! So why didn’t I do it?

I guess I just didn’t want it enough! Bob Proctor says that if you want it enough, and believe that you can get it, then you find the energy and the means to achieve it. But then my problem becomes the realization that there isn’t much that I want really bad! If I stay in my current situation, that’s because I convince myself that it’s not so bad! And that’s a scary thought for me: to realize that I don’t want that high lifestyle with hotels and nice restaurants and flying first class everywhere. Or at least, I don’t want it enough to make the required sacrifices to get it.

But I also wonder: do I need to make sacrifices or can I get all of that more easily? Is that one of the keys why so many people don’t reach the summit? All of the self-help programs that I’ve come across have this in common: their initiators were workaholics. They claim that you can make easy money with no effort, and they’re right that you get there at some point, but maybe not right from the start. The initial kick off needs a lot of sustained efforts.

So how do you get beyond that? In my opinion, the best way is to go for a program that needs no efforts at all that will act directly on your subconscious. Holosync meditations and hypnosis are good ways to start. I personally use Sonia Ricotti’s holosync meditations and Paul McKenna’s hypnosis.

Here are the links for these self-help programs:

Sonia’s Program

 

Get Paul’s book!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sharing

Ok. This post is going to be more like a journal entry. But I started a blog now, and I’m all about sharing! I’m noticing that people who succeed the most are the ones who share the most! They put the other person first. They genuinely try to help others. And than, in turn, allows them to rise!

I just did a powerful meditation from Sonia Ricotti’s program. I LOVE her program by the way! This is definitely the program that allowed me to grow the most! Try it out! Only $200 for he Unsinkable Bounce Back System! My best investment in self-help so far!

http://www.leadoutloud.ca/index-1.html

So today’s post is about my future. My meditation was about removing my “impatience” blockage. During the visualisation, I saw my life without this blockage. And it was amazing!! I saw myself in total control, having the total certainty that my prosperous future was on its way since I was following my plan to achieve it. I saw myself super busy but intensely calm… just how I like my life!! Having lots of responsibilities and activities, but always remaining in total control and peace.

I want to take the sharing notch further. I’d love to be a conference speaker. That would definitely allow me to help a lot of people! What I always found funny though, is that I’ve known that I wanted to be a speaker for a long time, but I took me a very long time to know what topic I want to talk about! Well, it’s a lot clearer now: I want to speak about self-help! So that’s why I created this blog! To develop some expertise in sharing my experiences! I hope it will help as many people as possible!